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| Princess her daughter Luba with the Precious Life Farm in the background |
One of the highlights of the last few months has been my involvement with The Precious Life Foundation. Started by Agnes Kwenda (who I first met as a physio when she tried to 'relocate' my dislocated finger last year!) Precious Life helps vulnerable women and babies. Started as a response to several cases of baby-dumping, Agnes and her husband Ronald began trying to address some root causes that may lead a pregnant girl to abandon her child. Some of the girls may work as prostitutes, others may have been abused – there are a variety of reasons. The Kwenda's discovered that often a small and simple intervention may be all it takes to persuade someone to think twice about abandoning a baby.
Precious Life runs a drop-in centre, which offers advice and practical support such as clothing and nappies. It also finds and provides training opportunities for young mothers with a view to giving them a source of livelihood to help them provide for their child.
The aim is for a self-sufficient project which gives the girls alternative options through education and employment opportunities. It's very practical in approach as Agnes puts her entrepreneurial and business abilities to good use. Small-scale agricultural projects and other vocational skills such as sewing, hospitality, beautician and hairdressing skills have been taught to girls via the drop-in centre.
Another branch of Precious Life is for deeper engagement with some of the girls, especially those who are victims of abuse and tragic circumstances. In some cases girls need to get out of an abusive situation and sometimes need help finding somewhere else to live. The Kwenda's have hosted several girls and babies themselves, but as numbers rose they looked for other medium to longer term solutions. This is how a small residential community came about and in August this year 8 girls moved to a newly bought farm 20 kilometres out of Bulawayo (on the Johannesburg road).
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| Precious Life farm: view from the next door property |
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| The house at the farm |
It's this group that I've been more involved with over the last couple of months. From a variety of backgrounds and with varying levels of education, the 8 girls are currently living on the farm which has plenty of potential and plans, but at this stage is still quite basic. 20 kilometres from the city and not much established yet, boredom can be one of the battles!
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Agnes Kwenda (3rd from left) with the residents of Precious Life
I offered to get involved and agreed to spend time with and befriend the group. So I've become a regular visitor and always take some kind of activity for us to do together. I'm getting to know the girls and their children and trust is growing.
Together we've done manicures, made bracelets, iced biscuits and made paper-chains. It's far more than just an activity - it's the time interacting and sharing, building relationship and investing. |
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| Pretty hands |
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| Our mobile salon |
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| Making friendship bracelets |
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| Making Paper Chains |
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| Icing biscuits |
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| Sampling the handiwork! |
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| Beautiful nails |
At a deeper level, I really believe in the importance of taking an interest in others and the power of sharing stories and journeying together. If I can be there in some way for these girls, listening and sharing, teaching and learning, laughing, encouraging and advocating on their behalf, then I will do so and consider it a privilege. I love using creativity and doing creative art/craft things in such a context. It adds another dimension to having fun and spending time together and can provide a way for the girls get a sense of achievement and encouragement. Precious Life is a very practical and completely grass-roots orientated initiative. All ideas of activities I could do with these special ladies gratefully received!
Hope you enjoye some pictures of things we've done so far... We've had a lot of fun!